Saturday, June 13, 2015

A word on venues

So you’ve found the someone you can spend the rest of your life with. You’ve decided to make it official.  Ultimately, as Em has pointed out, once you have made the decision to be together, have someone who can make it official and you’ve got something to wear (or not if you’re having a naturalist wedding – and why not? Less things to buy!), there’s really only one thing left to sort: Where the heck are you going to do it?  Everything else is window dressing and what the wedding industry makes a fortune from every year.

So, venues.  This can actually become one of the most overwhelming decisions to make and it’s certainly the one that can cost the most.  Outside, inside, small, large, simple, elegant, OTT? There are hundreds of blogs to inspire your dream venue.  Your local government sometimes collate all local venues into a Venue Guide on their website. This is a very useful place to start. If they don’t, call the council and ask!

When looking for your venue/s, the basics to consider are:

How many people are you inviting?  Around 90% of those invited will rsvp (whether using the details you sent or not!) and around 90% of these yeses will actually come (it’s even less with corporate events!). Strange but true – people get sick, non-transferable flights get cancelled. It happens. 

Cultural considerations.  Some families can invite up to 500 people on either side while others may have a smattering of extended family.  This will have a huge impact on venue selection as there are usually only a few venues that can accommodate these large numbers and they are often also catering to conferences etc.  Even fewer venues will accommodate large numbers and NOT look like they cater for conferences! 

Weather contingencies. Now I don’t suggest you prepare for every eventuality – you’ll go out of your mind.  However the biggest things to consider and ask venues when looking is what are the wet weather contingencies and are they included in the price?  Essentially you’ll need a roof over people’s heads and perhaps umbrellas to ferry people from car park.  If it does rain, remember, a wet knot is harder to undo.

Also, consider a super hot or humid day – this is Australia after all. Is air-conditioning possible?  Are fans provided/available? (And where's the power for them!) (If it's really cold, are there heaters?Even in the height of summer, it can be cold at night). Providing bottled water for people is a nice touch (whether branded with your lovely stationery or just bought in bulk from Big W) and if your budget will stretch, parasols or market umbrellas.  Personally, while the idea of individual fans is lovely, in reality, guests can just use your order of service. 

You can hire marquees (for just shade or full coverage) fairly cheaply but book early and check if delivery is included.  If collecting yourself, you’ll need at least 2.5m straight through the car – a hatchback ain’t gonna cut it!

Swing by the venue a few times on days with different weather so you get a feel for it.

Catering.  The majority of reception venues will have their own inhouse catering. I strongly recommend you try before you buy!  There’s nothing worse at an event with booze than food so bad, no one eats it and everyone is plastered in the first hour.  There’s usually a set menu and you set the number of courses and select the alternate drops for each.

Drinks – Where possible I prefer a bar tab.  Many venues will have a drinks package they’ll steer you towards however ask if a tab is possible.  This way you aren’t paying the same amount per head for that mate who polishes off a bottle of bourbon as your granny or pregnant friend drinking lemonade. You can select a few wines, beers etc and specify/exclude spirits as preferred.  Watch you don’t get charged corkage (ie the cost of glassware provision/washing/some breakage) in addition to a tab or package.

If you're doing drinks in a gorgeous outdoor setting and the venue aren't arranging them, remember you'll need eskis, ice and possibly even a temporary liquor license.

Dessert – it is possible to use your cake as dessert but some venues include dessert in the package.  Ask for a discount in this case if dessert won’t be used.

Toilets. It seems an odd thing to consider, but some venues do not have facilities on site.  As such your guests will be constantly asking you (the person who picked the place) where they are and do they need a key.  Please ensure you have sufficient toilets for both men and women and disabled access if required, within a short walk from the proceedings.  Also, do you need to provide soap and toilet paper or is it included?  There are also some really elegant port-a-loos (http://excloosive.com.au/) available for hire that won't look like Kenny will pick them up!

Décor. Does the venue charge extra for furniture, chair covers, fairy lights etc.  Can you bring in your own décor if you don’t like theirs?  What will be set up by the staff?
Some venues also provide you with an event planner.  It can be very helpful to have one point of contact to deal with.

Venue cost. It’s common for venues to have a room hire charge (anywhere from $500 - $5K) but often this is waived if you spend a minimum amount on catering.  Find out if this is the case early.  Some venues, particularly those in the Arts like art galleries, museums etc may rely on these hire fees to fund/protect exhibits and as such catering costs are in addition.


Insurance.  Please ensure you ask if the venue has public liability coverage.  In Australia this is usually for $20million.

Hopefully I haven't bamboozled you too much.  The biggest thing is to arrange to see the venue and have all your questions ready to ask.